Married Life, Divorced or Living in separation, Why?

In modern times, the number of divorce cases or of living separately by the husband and wife has increased. For this there are many reasons including of the planet and how the planets make one of the partners 'proudly', egoist, mentally sick, stubborn, obstinate, not interested in keeping up the marital relations on account of some bad habits including of 'drinking' by the partner. It has been seen that divorce processing get started on whimsically grounds including on account of extra marital relations or on account of 'impotency' of the husband or frigidity of the wife. We have seen many cases of harassed husbands who are denied 'sex by the wife on some pretext or the other.

The other important factor is greediness by some persons i.e. demand for dowry etc. and other valuables from the wife's parents including demand for separate House/ flat etc.

In astrology, the Moon is controller of mind and persons born with weak Lagan and weak Moon are swayed by others instigating relations instigating the divorce/ separation. The cases of dower deaths as per paper reports are well known. (see the horoscope below).

The need for keeping home for happiness and prosperity cannot be over-emphasized but we need to educate the couples to ensure their mental attitude and the right way and no hurried steps by taken.

In this horoscope, the native was born on 16.09.1969 and married in may, 1991. Divorce proceedings granted in February 1999. Ardra Nakstras born ladies are cruel and normally unhappy married life is indicated unless they adjust with their unhappy married life is indicated unless they adjust with their husband. Mars (12th lord) in 7th House itself is sufficient for such an action. Saturn aspects Lagan and Rahu (seprative planet) aspects the Moon. Further Mars also aspect Venus in the 2nd House (another House for marital life). Jupiter/ Mercury could not save the divorce on account of the Sun (another planet responsible for separation). Ketu in turn aspect the planet of destiny Saturn.

Now, we give below some of the important principles. Various reasons of separation or divorce between husband and wife have been detailed above and now we to in age have astrologically.

In judging the horoscope the basic rule of "Seprative Influence" is to be analyzed which gives a clear view of its influences, specially of Rahu.

Sun, Saturn, Rahu and 12th House lord of sing occupied by these planets are seprative in character, that is to say, these planet cause separation from or abandonment of the traits of the House etc. which they influence by association or aspect.

For example, if two or more of the above-mentioned planets influence the 4th House and its lord, one is forced to leave his home or country of birth. If they influence 10th House and its lord and Sun, one has to be separated from the benefits of the ruling powers, viz resigning from service, termination of service, change in profession etc.

Following combinations may be kept in mind – Ten Commandments.

Jupiter in 7th House generally, even lord of 7th does bestow very unsatisfactory results. He causes great disappointments and dissatisfaction in married life. He cause undue delay in marriage.
Marital disorder may occur seeking separation when Venus is found in kritrika, moola, Aridra or jyeshtha Nakshatras. Out of these, keitika is most in-auspicious and gives very bad results.
When 7th lord is in 6th and afflicted by seprative influence, there may be separation. Similarly, when 7th lord or signification joins the 6th lord and is afflicted by aspect or conjunction of malefics, similar results are likely. When strong Jupiter makes a link with the above combinations in any form, the separation may be saved but the husband and wife will experience quarrels.
6th House denotes legal disputes and connection of malefic 6th lord with 7th House, 7th lord or signification may result in legal action and separation. Also when 7th lord or signification joins 6th House being afflicted by malefic.
When 7th House, 7th lord and significations all are afflicted, conjoined associated or aspected by malefics, unhappiness in married life is indicated. Significations are Venus for males and Mars in case of females.
When Rahu and Saturn join Lagan, one is likely to fac4e strife and separation in married life. When 7th lord is retrograde and is also afflicted, similar results are experienced.
When in female chart, Aries or Scorpio Lagan rise and 7th lord is weak, combust, retrograde and is also afflicted, she will be abandoned by her husband.
If combination of Sun and Mars in either horoscope is in 2nd, 7th or 8th House, it holds out excellent prospects for discarding, separation and divorce. It does not necessarily involve loss of partner.
To analyze marriage, affliction to Venus by situation, association or aspects of malefics have an adverse effect on morals. Venus represents the other partner of marriage.
When lords of 2nd and 7th Houses are in constellation of evil lords, particularly in the constellation of 6th lord and are afflicted, there will be separation, divorce, litigation etc. between the couple.

Dr. Shanker Adawal
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Dr. Shanker Adawal

Dr. Shanker Adawal is a man who dons many hats; from strategizing in the corporate boardroom to warding off ill effects of planetary misconfigurations, all come under his repertoire of rich knowledge, experience and vast skill sets. He is also passionate about promotion of human rights. Currently, President, Corporate Affairs, Reliance Industries, he can be aptly described as a seasoned management professional, accomplished astrologer, activist and an author - all rolled into one.

After doing PhD in economics and studying management from Delhi University, Dr. Adawal joined the corporate world. He soon climbed the corporate ladder and worked in senior positions in a plethora of prestigious companies such as DCM, Modi Xerox, Tatas, Nortel and presently Reliance Industries. He has served in the field of telecom since the liberalization process started in India. His experience of 35 years plus has been with regulations, government relations and support services in the field of telecom, energy, retail and life science.

Dr. Adawal played an important role in Reliance’s smooth network roll out in the first decade of 21st century.

Simultaneously, he has been working in the field of higher education.

Dr. Adawal is also President of Manavadhikar Samajik Manch (MASM) that he founded in 1997. It is headquartered in New Delhi with chapters in Orissa, Uttar Pradesh and Maharashtra. MASM since the past 20 years has been fighting for human rights and its motto is ‘the creation of a just and equitable society’.

His organization - MASM, has action-oriented and research-oriented goals: one stressing on medical and legal camps; second, identification of incidence of human rights violation & networking with similar organizations and third, focusing on seminars, surveys and research on various subjects.

Dr. Shanker Adawal has authored at least 18 books on astrology, that shows not only his love for this subject but also a deep insight into the world of planets and their knowledge. In fact, astrology has been a passion with him since his childhood days. It is for him an inner seeking as well as a way of public outreach, especially as a helping hand for those who have approached him in distress.